MELISSA | Feminine Love & Leadership Mentor

The video that planted the seed… 🍯 Unpopular opinion: if you don’t feel chosen in the start of your relationship, you’re unlikely to ever feel fully chosen by him. I’m not saying that every relationship has to start like this (there are so many examples that don’t and have incredible, long lasting and healthy dynamics - AND you can absolutely switch up a dynamic from within) But - I AM saying that when the healthy masculine energy knows what he wants - he KNOWS, he claims, and he takes the lead. You literally can’t stop it. And when he doesn’t know, it’s NOT your job to convince him to choose you! Just be your amazing self and let the right one come to YOU. Know that you deserve to feel fully chosen in love. If he’s activating your wounds of not being good enough, or not being chosen, or it’s that same pattern of you wanting someone who doesn’t fully want you, it is a red flag and most likely a trauma bond that’s only going to cause pain from the start. 🚩 (I’m talking from experience!) So - can you love yourself enough to walk in the opposite direction, and know that God has someone wayyyyy better for you, who literally can’t wait to say “that one is gonna be MINE!” 😍 You deserve to feel claimed and chosen in love, babe. Do you desire this dynamic? Are you calling this in? Or are you desiring to shift the dynamic in your current relationship? If you answered YES to any of the above - this is exactly what we’ll be diving into inside of CHOSEN. Comment “CHOSEN” and I’ll send you the link. We have over 5000 women signed up for this class already! 😍🫦

🍯 STOP CHASING LOVE—BECOME THE WOMAN WHO IS CHOSEN 🍯 Love doesn’t reward the women who try harder. It flows to the women who know how to receive. If you’re tired of… 💔 Feeling like you always have to initiate, plan, and keep the relationship alive 💔 Attracting men who won’t fully commit or step up 💔 Over-functioning in love, while secretly wishing someone would take care of you for once 💔 Feeling unseen, undervalued, or stuck in almost-love Then babe, CHOSEN is for you. In this FREE 2-hour masterclass, I’m going to teach you how to activate your feminine magnetism—so men naturally step up, pursue you, and claim you fully. Inside CHOSEN, you’ll learn: 💋 The #1 reason women struggle to attract devotion (and how to shift it instantly) 💋 How to inspire deeper love, pursuit, and leadership from your partner or future partner 💋 Why being in your masculine energy is keeping you from being cherished in love 💋 The energetic shift that makes you magnetic—so love starts working for you instead of against you 💋 The secrets of feminine attraction & polarity that create lasting desire in relationships This isn’t about playing games or following outdated dating rules. This is about embodying your most magnetic energy—so love has no choice but to claim you. No more chasing. No more settling. No more questioning your worth in love. Are you ready to step into your most cherished, adored, and fully chosen era? Join me LIVE for CHOSEN on March 4th, 2025 ✨ Comment “CHOSEN” and I’ll send you the link! ❤️‍🔥 🍯👑

From heartbreak to a love beyond my wildest dreams ❤️‍🔥 For years, I waited. I wondered. I tried to prove I was worthy of love and commitment. I thought if I just did more, gave more, loved harder, I would feel chosen. But love doesn’t work like that. The truth? I wasn’t choosing myself. When I finally stopped chasing, stopped waiting, and turned inward—everything shifted. ✨ I healed my heart. ✨ I stopped mothering in relationships. ✨ I embodied my feminine magnetism and trusted that the right man would step up. And when I did? Love found me and swept me off my feet. I stopped gripping or forcing and completely surrendered any timelines, checklists or ideas of how it should go. Within months, I met the man who would become my husband. There was no confusion. No second-guessing. No trying to “make it work.” It was effortless and flowed easily. 💍 Four months later, we were engaged. 👶🏼 Our first baby was already on the way. 💫 Three years later, we’re happily married, expecting baby #2, and building a beautiful vision for our fam together. On March 4th, join me for CHOSEN, a LIVE 2-hour masterclass where I’ll guide you through the exact shifts that led me here: 💖 Understanding feminine energy, polarity and magnetism 🔥 Healing our relationship with men and learning how to love them right 💍 Becoming the kind of woman who is fully pursued, adored, and committed to These shifts have transformed my love life—and they’ve done the same for my clients: 💍 Calling in soul-aligned partners & engagements 🔥 Bringing passion back into long-term relationships ❤️‍🔥 Getting families back together because of finding healthier ways to meet each other in love 💖 Feeling more confident, magnetic, and cherished than ever before… Whether you’re single, dating, married or “it’s complicated”… this will change everything. Drop CHOSEN in the comments & I’ll send you the link! 💌

Single honeys where are you at with this piece? 🏆🍯 Comment “CHOSEN” to join our live masterclass on embodying your most authentic and healthy feminine magnetism in 8 days 🫦❤️‍🔥

Worried about starting over single, or that your best years are behind you? Remember - love isn’t on a deadline - it’s on divine alignment. Aka - God’s time, baby. ⏰ ✨ If you’re in your 30s wondering when your person will find you, take a deep breath and remind yourself that your next great love story is RIGHT ON TIME ❤️‍🔥 Love loves to surprise us. ♥️ And - Amal met George at 35. Julia Roberts married at 45. Penélope Cruz found her forever at 36. Your next beautiful love story is unfolding in perfect timing….and it’s probably much closer than you think. The real question isn’t when… it’s who you are becoming as you prepare to receive it. If you’re ready to shift out of stress and scarcity and into the frequency of love that magnetizes exactly what (or who) you desire - then my CHOSEN Masterclass is for you. ❤️‍🔥 This isn’t about waiting around or hoping love just happens - it’s about first choosing yourself, and stepping into your irresistible, radiant magnetism so that the love meant for you recognizes you instantly. Drop CHOSEN in the comments, and I’ll send you all the details. Almost 7000 of you joining us, it’s going to be incredible! ✨✨✨

Ever felt like you had to choose between an amazing love life and a thriving business? 🙋🏼‍♀️ Me toooooo.😮‍💨 I used to sabotage my success and play small, fearing that success would = masculine energy and therefore repel the kind of man I desired. But here’s the truth: you don’t have to choose OR play small. You can thrive in both love and business by embracing your feminine energy to lead you in both arenas. (Cha-chiiiiing) 🍯🫦❤️‍🔥 It’s the difference between being married to your work, constantly stressed out, unable to switch off, and wearing your packed calendar like a badge of honor… And leading your business with magnetism, intuition, embodiment, flow, surrender, and actually being a RELAXED woman 🫦🫦🫦 These Queens knew how to do it ^^^ and this is exactly what I teach my clients, whether they come to me for love coaching, business coaching or a combo of both. If you’ve ever felt like your success holds you back in love, don’t buy into those stories. It’s not your success that’s intimidating (to the right men, anyway)—it’s the masculine energy you’re coming from that’s repellent. Ready to transform your love life? Join me for CHOSEN: The Masterclasses, where you’ll learn to: 🍯 Shift your energy to attract men who are serious about commitment - or shift the polarity in your existing partnership 🍯 Stop settling for inconsistency and start experiencing pursuit and devotion 🍯 Identify and release patterns keeping you stuck in the situationship trap 🍯 Cultivate self-worth and confidence that make you magnetic to real love 🍯 Release patterns holding you back from deep intimacy in your marriage 💍 Just comment “CHOSEN” and I’ll send you the link 🔗

Holy Guacamole 🥑 over 6000 of you joining us for Chosen! 🫦🍯 Simply SO excited to over deliver and make this our absolute biggest and best free live event we’ve ever done!!! 😍🫦🍯 This 2 hour masterclass is for you if you are: 💔 Feeling like you always have to initiate, plan, and keep the relationship alive 💔 Attracting men who won’t fully commit or step up 💔 Over-functioning in love, while secretly wishing someone would take care of you for once 💔 Feeling unseen, undervalued, or stuck in almost-love I’m going to teach you how to activate your feminine magnetism—so men naturally step up, pursue you, and claim you fully. Inside CHOSEN, you’ll learn: 💋 The #1 reason women struggle to attract devotion (and how to shift it instantly) 💋 How to inspire deeper love, pursuit, and leadership from your partner or future partner 💋 Why being in your masculine energy is keeping you from being cherished in love 💋 The energetic shift that makes you magnetic—so love starts working for you instead of against you 💋 The secrets of feminine attraction & polarity that create lasting desire in relationships - even years into marriage, babies and all the ups and downs of life. This isn’t about playing games or following outdated dating rules. This is about embodying your most magnetic energy—so love has no choice but to claim you. No more chasing. No more settling. No more questioning your worth in love. Join me LIVE for CHOSEN on March 4th, 2025 ✨ Comment “CHOSEN” and I’ll send you the link! ❤️‍🔥 🍯👑

Do situationships ever turn into real, devoted relationships? Or are you just wasting your time? 😮‍💨 Let’s be honest—if you have to ask where this is going, you already know the answer. A man who truly desires you won’t keep you guessing. He won’t string you along with late-night texts, casual “what u up 2?” hangs, and vague promises of “seeing where things go.” He will claim you with certainty, devotion, and a love that feels undeniably secure. So why are you settling for lukewarm, half-in connections, hoping one day he suddenly wakes up and realises you’re The One? It’s time to break free from the exhausting cycle of almost-love, on/off love that never quite manages to figure it out - and step into the energy of a woman who is CHOSEN. Inside CHOSEN: The Masterclasses, I’ll teach you how to: 💌 Shift your energy to attract men who are serious about commitment 💌 Stop settling for inconsistency and start experiencing pursuit and devotion 💌 Identify and release the patterns keeping you stuck in the situationship trap 💌 Cultivate the self-worth and confidence that make you magnetic to real love No more wondering, waiting, or wishing they would pursue you. You were made to be chosen. Are you ready to STOP making HIM the prize in love🏆 , and instead become the woman who naturally calls in deep, undeniable devotion? Comment “CHOSEN” and join 4000 women in the room on 3/4 😍🍯⚡️

Your marriage should not be “another thing” on your to-do list. What I see so often? Women putting their business first. Their kids first. And where does their marriage fall? Last. But here’s the truth: When your marriage is thriving—when you are deeply loved, cherished, and fulfilled—everything else in life flourishes. Your business, your children, your energy. Because love is the foundation of it all. Intimacy in marriage isn’t something you squeeze into the tiny gaps of your schedule. It has to be a priority. THE priority. And the key to making it effortless? Polarity. 🧲 When you understand the feminine arts, you don’t have to “work” for intimacy—it naturally ignites. Passion, attraction, and connection become inevitable. Comment CHOSEN and learn how to embody the feminine energy that creates a love life you don’t have to chase. 🫦🍯 X

*bites lip* 🫦 what would you add to this?

What it really means when he says he “can’t give you what you want” Agree or Disagree?

“Happy wife, happy life” isn’t just a cute saying—it’s the foundation of a thriving family. ♥️ The mother’s nervous system sets the tone for the entire household. When she feels cherished, adored, and emotionally safe in her marriage, her energy creates a ripple effect, calmer, more secure, and deeply loved children. A husband who prioritizes his wife’s happiness isn’t just nurturing his marriage; he’s building a home where love flows effortlessly, where children grow up witnessing what a healthy, devoted partnership looks like. If you desire this kind of love - the kind where you feel deeply seen, chosen, and held, CHOSEN is for you. Because it’s not just about your partner changing to make this happen - it’s about you shifting your energy first so that you being loved correctly is completely inevitable. 🧲 ❤️‍🔥 Whether you’re single, coupled, married or it’s complicated… this is the work we will be doing inside Chosen, my upcoming 2 hour Live masterclass all about embodying your healthy and empowered feminine energy in love. Comment CHOSEN and I’ll DM you the link ✉️