JacelynTay

All parents should watch this! https://youtu.be/d2IK5Wh8DrU Would you tell your daughter that it is fine if any guy wants sex with her, just use a condom? Or tell your son as long as he doesn’t get the girl pregnant, do whatever he wants with her? Most of us won’t! Why? Deep down, we know the truth - sex is not just physical. Doing sex casually hurts ourselves at the deepest level we could imagine. The spiritual bonding that we formed with this person and that person would affect us from within and manifest in every imaginable way… anger, fear, insecurity, hatred etc. This Christmas, I wish many would come to know what God meant for sexuality to be and how it can affect our entire life. May our next generation find the truth and light in this crazy world ❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

“We don’t fall in love with the other person. We fall in love with the version of us that we get to be through and with the other person.” It is true! So, the problem with marriage is “falling in love”. 🤣🤣 We should not marry someone we “fall in love with”. That would mean disaster! Because the minute we do not like the version of us anymore when we are with that person, we would call it quit. “Falling in love” is not “love”. People who cannot differentiate this would never truly love because “love” is all about themselves and how they feel🤣. To love, means you choose to accept the good and the bad of that person and choose to see beyond the flaws, but continue to give and sacrifice because you are happy to do that. Marriage fails because many marry the person we “fall in love” with, not considering if we really want to “do a life with this person” despite every challenges. The initial motive of marriage was wrong. 😅We want something from that person instead of wanting to give that person ourselves. Well, now that I am aware of this, I have decided to stay single lolxxx. 😂 Because I already have someone I love so dearly - God and my son. My love for them is sufficient for me to feel joyful every single day. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ If along the way, someone worth my love appears, I might marry again. But for now, nope, haven’t seen that man yet, lolxxx!

“Perhaps the greatest tragedy of existence is that we are all destined to walk alone, even when we believe we have found someone to share the burden. There is an unbridgeable chasm between souls, a gap that no love, no friendship, no connection can ever truly cross. We are, by nature, solitary beings trapped in the illusion of togetherness, clinging to fleeting moments of closeness that eventually fade into the vast emptiness of our own minds.”

It is so interestingly true that many relationships start from trauma-bonding. Especially for marriage, one thought he/she had found a sole mate who“understood”one’s plight because they are in the same rocky boat. Such union becomes treacherous when each tries to grab the other for life, when each tries to survive. Both takers, both losers in the battlefield of marriage. “Simone de Beauvoir, (born Jan. 9, 1908, Paris, France—died April 14, 1986, Paris), French writer and feminist. As a student at the Sorbonne, she met Jean-Paul Sartre, with whom she formed a lifelong intellectual and romantic bond.” #jacelynphilosophy

If grocery store has a health food section, that means the rest are junk 🤣🤣! More people are awakening to the nightmare that they have been poisoned for decades and they didn’t know, eating those “delicious” potato chips, cakes made with egg powder not real eggs, biscuits full of sugars and poisonous glyphosate wheat from supermarkets shelves. However, by the time they realise this, it may be too late. They are probably on lifelong medication. So, it is the duty of us who know the dark side of poisonous chemicals in foods to educate the next generation, hoping that they stop poisoning themselves and their children, further mutating their DNA. We can avoid chronic health issues, autoimmune disorders or diseases by selecting foods without chemicals. For this generation of millennials and gen X, perhaps we cannot help much because many are addicted beyond words. But we can do something for Gen Z…they are our children, our future leaders in this country we call home.

I found my love. He is my anchor, my constant, my steadiness. He is my shelter, my oxygen, my hideaway. He is my safe place, my saving grace. I don’t know who I’d be if I didn’t know Him. Thank God, I do. He alone is enough for me. Only few friends understand how, as a single, I am truly joyful every single day and feel loved. So much so that I don’t feel lack at all. Each day is fruitful with a purpose. Simple yet rich. Peaceful yet exciting. I don’t even need a companion. I have an exciting future for me to pursue. Such is a blessed life. Jesus, because of you, I am made whole. Your sacrificial love is more than enough to fill my heart. I seriously am not interested in finding a “life-time partner” because I have You already. I never feel lonely because everywhere I go, I have You with me. Your gentle voice whispering wisdom, guiding me through the day; the light You shine so bright at my balcony; Your peace that the world does not understand but I do; the tremendous joy of tasting Your pureness and holiness; the security I feel of Your faithfulness and so much more! I finally understood why the bible says You alone Is sufficient. Your Holiness makes my soul thirst for You. And Your love engulfs me. I love you, Jesus. Photo: @pigscanflyphotography

Are you helplessly in love with someone till you become obsessed? How you define love determines if you end up with a happy life or not. Many people don’t realise that they are in love with the idea of marriage rather than the person they marry. Some are in love with the possessions of the person rather than the person. Anyhow, if you are happy with whatever you call love, bless u. For those who are stuck, unhappy and seem to lose yourself, take back the control over your life. Create a life that you love. Find peace, fun and meaning in your very own world without a partner first (I am referring to the unmarried singles 😅). You are a precious child of God. Don’t settle for someone who doesn’t treasure you. 👍👍💪🏻💪🏻❤️❤️🌺💖🥳 #jacelynphilosophy #jacelyntayhealthcoach