Aubrey Grossen | Motherhood Rooted in Christ

This past year I’ve done a lot of “soul searching”. Mostly about my own beliefs that I was born and raised in (The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints). To be honest, I’ve had a lot of doubts creep in. I feel like we live in a time where it’s praised to “leave the norm” or walk away from religion. And I would be lying if I said all these voices have made me not question. After Covid there was a specific Sunday where we started gathering again in person and I remember vividly thinking how easy it would be to just not go back. With little kids I didn’t see the purpose of it. The thought alone made me exhausted. I felt like I would have more spiritual experiences alone then when at church so what was the point in going? So… I didn’t go. I was depressed and people with strong testimonies all felt self-righteous to me like they hadn’t ever had a hard time. I fell into Victimland pretty quick. During that very same time I had a neighbor offer to take all of my kids to church. And when they’d knock at the door on Sunday morning to help finish tying their shoes my kids would say, “Mom the angels are here to pick us up!” That neighbor and my kids are literally the only reason I started to go back again. At first it was just so my kids could go to primary, I would grin and bear it. Or the fact that Shey was the bishop. I’d go support him. But little by little, I’ve realized that I don’t go to church for the peace (I’m usually chasing kids the whole time!). I don’t go for the social aspect, (I’d rather stay in my pjs!). This whole time I’ve tried to see what the church can do for ME. What would I get out of it? I’ve since realized that I don’t go to church for myself. And I actually don’t go for others either. I go for Him. I go for Jesus Christ. I go because He asked me to. I go because I believe Him when he promises protection. No more halfsies for me. I want to be ALL IN. To wear my garments when it’s not convenient. To make sure I’m there for the sacrament even when my kids are having melt downs. To have a foundation for my kids to thrive when this world gets too heavy. So count me in. He chose us. And now I choose Him.

I’ve recently done a lot of “soul searching”. Mostly about my own beliefs that I was born and raised in (The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints). To be honest, l’ve had a lot of doubts creep in. I feel like we live in a time where it’s praised to “leave the norm” or walk away from religion. And I would be lying if I said all these voices have made me not question. After Covid there was a specific Sunday where we started gathering again in person and I remember vividly thinking how easy it would be to just not go back. With little kids I didn’t see the purpose of it. The thought alone made me exhausted. I felt like I would have more spiritual experiences alone then when at church so what was the point in going? So... I didn’t go. I was depressed and people with strong testimonies all felt self-righteous to me like they hadn’t ever had a hard time. I fell into Victimland pretty quick. During that very same time I had a neighbor offer to take all of my kids to church. And when they’d knock at the door on Sunday morning to help finish tying their shoes my kids would say, “Mom the angels are here to pick us up!” That neighbor and my kids are literally the only reason I started to go back again. At first it was just so my kids could go to primary, 1 would grin and bear it. Or the fact that Shey was the bishop. I’d go support him. But little by little, l’ve realized that I don’t go to church for the peace (I’m usually chasing kids the whole time!). I don’t go for the social aspect, (I’d rather stay in my pjs!). This whole time l’ve tried to see what the church can do for ME. What would I get out of it? I’ve since realized that I don’t go to church for myself. And I actually don’t go for others either. I go for Him. I go for Jesus Christ. I go because He asked me to. I go because I believe Him when he promises protection. No more halfsies for me. I want to be ALL IN. To wear my garments when it’s not convenient. To make sure I’m there for the sacrament even when my kids are having melt downs. To have a foundation for my kids to thrive when this world gets too heavy. So count me in. He chose us. And now I choose Him.

I can’t quite possibly begin to explain how much this project has meant to me. I’m fighting back tears even putting this reel together. 5 years ago Heavenly Father asked me to write this book and it turned out to be what I had envisioned + so much more🥹 He sent me all the right people to edit, design, do the artwork, help with quotes, contribute and share their stories. There is such a sacred relationship Christ has with women. And this book shows that. It has strengthened me to truly know Him and I testify with all my heart that He never stops coming. Thanks everyone who has followed this little publishing journey. It’s been my favorite project I’ve ever done and I can’t wait for you to get your hands on it in the next few weeks!🙊👏🏻 Tag a women/mama you love to help spread the word!

🥹🥹🥹 YOU are their memories. YOU are their magic. I love creating traditions and memories with our little family. And there’s always a wink and a nod from our parents and grandparents we carry with us.❤️ Do you feel this??

Alright let’s hear it…are you team elf or 🙅🏼‍♀️? I was 7 months pregnant when I recorded this and my feelings haven’t changed😆 #elfontheshelf

I mean… so close!! But so far😂😂😂

Thanks everyone in the Vegas and Denver airports helping our children on the escalators😂🙏🏻 It takes a village. With lots of tears and coaching each other we made it😆

Enhancing scripture study w/ @beckysquire 🤍 I loved this conversation and the different tips she shared on studying the gospel personally and with our kids. If you have any questions for her drop them in the comments! ✨

We did it! After talking about it all year, and asking all of you - experiences won over gifts this year! $10 Venmo to the first person who guesses where we’re off to!👇🏻

Comment HOPE below for the link! This week’s episode just launched! Something I love speaking and coaching on is getting out of the victim mindset. It’s something that has changed my life. Sharing a piece of it here and hope it sparks something for you too! If you’ve already listened to it, I’d love to hear your thoughts!

✨ Comment shade for the link to see what shade YOU are. ✨ Obsessed is an understatement. As GenZ would say, this stuff slaps!! Why?? ✨ it’s the first ever no-makeup makeup. Meaning you’re really just putting your skincare on as makeup! ✨Contains hydroxytyrosol in it which your skin NEEDS and will love having it on it all day ✨ It doesn’t cake or gets in the creases of your face. ✨ It is buildable and actually has more coverage than i anticipated. ✨ Is light and lasts all day. 365 day return policy as always and to make sure you get the right color. The shades are forgiving so you might match with several. I’m wearing shades 6,3, and 13 in this video!

When the beat drops and you can actually feel it and aren’t numb anymore🙌🏻🤣 IYKYK! Ps this is the jumpsuit of the season, comment “jumpsuit” if you want the link!